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Empathy: Walking a Mile in Someone's Shoes
When I was
a graduate student, I spent a number of hours observing other school counselors
conducting classroom guidance lessons. One memorable lesson involved a
counselor who used the idiom, “Before you judge a man, walk a mile in his
shoes.” The lesson was designed to introduce the concept of empathy to first
graders. While the students seemed to enjoy the lesson, there was still some
confusion regarding the concept. Some even took the idiom literally. I can only
imagine the interest
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Jul 8th 2021
Coping with Stories
My husband has been working from home for the last few
months. Like many families, we have had to adjust our routines to accommodate
the change. For us, this means my husband retreats to his “office,” a tiny room
near the entryway of our home, for conference calls. In turn, I try my best to
keep the kids quiet. Most of the time this works out well. But our house is
small, and some days we all get an earful. I normally tune out the monotony of
his meetings, but one particular call piqued
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Aug 4th 2020
Five Tips to Turn Around Negative Thoughts
Have you ever started off the day with positive intentions only
to find your mood spiraling downwards as life seemingly throws all sorts of
obstacles your way?
Last week, I was rushing to drop off my oldest child to an
event. The event was about 45 minutes away not counting the awful traffic that
is the norm in our area. When traffic finally broke, I managed to pick up speed
only to be pulled over by a state trooper. It seemed we were destined to be
late no matter what I did. The day
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Jan 28th 2019