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Presence or Presents? Five Ways to Be More Present During the Holidays
As you reflect on the
holiday season, what images, sentiments, or traditions come to mind first? Maybe it’s religious
services. Or family meals and tasty sweets. Perhaps it’s traveling near and far
to see loved ones. Hosting large celebrations or enjoying more intimate affairs.
Exchanging store-bought or homemade gifts, or maybe you forgo gift-giving
altogether? Whatever your holiday
rituals and customs involve, is there room to explore a new tradition? This year, I encourage
everyone to
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Dec 12th 2022
Encouraging Family Literacy: 6 Suggestions for Growing Your Child’s Interest in Reading
What
is literacy? The
National Literacy Trust defines literacy as “the ability to read,
write, speak, and listen in a way that lets us communicate effectively and make
sense of the world.”
Until
I joined the team at Boys Town Press, I didn’t think much about literacy or the
nuances around how a child becomes interested in reading. But looking back, I
have several core childhood memories that I now see as paramount to my own love
of reading and learning.
Most
of these memories c
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Nov 8th 2022
Helping Your Child Deal with Rumors
Your child comes home from school feeling sad, embarrassed,
and angry. After probing, you find out your child has been the victim of untrue
rumors being spread about him. Why is this happening? How can you support your
child through this? How can your child prove something didn’t happen…when it
didn’t happen? There are steps to take when dealing with rumors and gossip.First, find out where the rumors started. Ask your
child if she knows how the rumors started? Does she know the child/ren wh
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Oct 4th 2022
A Two-Part Series on the Value of Teaching Social Skills (Part 2)
Part 2: How to Teach Social Skills
After exploring how social skills help us make connections,
foster a sense of belonging, and strengthen our social-emotional health ( see Part 1 ), let’s take a step back and examine how, exactly, we can help kids learn
and use these skills so they can succeed in the classroom, at home, and in our community.
Here is a straightforward, five-step action plan you can
follow to successfully teach social skills to any child in your care.1. Start
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Sep 20th 2022
Back to School: 10 Restorative Care Tips
Back to school.Sometimes it’s a time of hope and excitement. Sometimes,
it’s a time of anxiety and dread.“Will they like me?”“What if the work is too much?” “What if I can’t handle it all this time?”No, I’m not talking about students – though they are likely
experiencing similar emotions. I’m talking to school counselors.As counselors, we’re not immune to that weird conglomeration
of emotions that accompany the back-to-school season. It starts in June when
the school supply section goes up i
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Sep 15th 2022
A Two-Part Series on the Value of Teaching Social Skills (Part 1)
Part 1: Social Skills Can Expand (and Limit) Life’s
OpportunitiesWhen you hear the phrase “social skills,” you probably think
about all the verbal and nonverbal actions and behaviors that happen while
interacting with others. Your words. Their words. Your tone. Their tone. Your
gestures. Their gestures. Your appearance. Their appearance. All the stuff that
comes together and contributes to the success or failure of an interaction. Being human, we’re naturally social beings. However, the
d
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Sep 7th 2022
Value of Face-to-Face Connections
In today's digital world, it's common for scenarios like this to play out: A teenage girl comes into the kitchen obviously upset. When her dad asks what's wrong, she says she is having a fight with a friend who said hurtful things to her.Her dad can't believe the friend would say some of the things his daughter told him about. For proof, she takes out her cell phone so he can "read" the argument. The entire thing was happening via text messages, and they hadn't actually spoken about the problem
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Jul 12th 2022
Social Media Driver's License
Do you feel overwhelmed when you think about parenting social media? Do you know where to start? What sites are more kid-friendly or how do you talk to your kid about the dangers of social media? Or what are the dangers of social media? You are not alone. Our goal is help to you navigate the world of social media by having your child earn their social media license.
First, it is important to identify what your child knows about social media. This will help you assess your child's readiness
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Jun 9th 2022
Is Your Child Struggling with Anxiety?
You’ve noticed your
child is upset, but you aren’t sure why? Is schoolwork overwhelming them? Is
there a conflict with a teacher? Are they having trouble with a buddy or in their
friend group?
The first step is simply
to ask your child if something is bothering them. If they can articulate why
they’re upset, you’ll know how to help. But what if they can’t really explain
the changes in their mood and behavior? This could be a sign your child is
dealing with something more serious
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May 12th 2022
On Language and Unconditional Positive Regard
“I’m bad.”We’ve all heard it. A child has been told they’re “bad” to
the point that they’ve integrated it into their sense of identity. “Bad” goes from being something
a child does to who they think they are. Though adults may think this
type of language can curb problematic behavior, it actually stands to produce
the opposite effect. If a child is bad as a person, why should they try to
change their behavior at all? If they are inherently “bad,” it’s not worth the
effort. It creates a
se
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Apr 26th 2022