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Your Child Disagrees with You… Now What?
If your children are anything like mine, you know that from
time to time (and some days it definitely feels like ALL THE TIME), they are
going to disagree with you. When that happens, how tolerant are you? Do you try
to hear them out, or do you immediately shut them down? Can you engage in a give-and-take
dialogue, or do you fall into the trap of a lose-lose shout fest?
Moms and dads who adhere to a more authoritarian,
my-way-or-the-highway parenting philosophy may have little patienc
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Jan 20th 2023
10 Ways to Find Motivation Throughout the School Year
About 10 years ago, I signed up to run the Disney Marathon. I
had run shorter races - 5ks, 10ks, even half marathons, but I had never
fathomed the full 26.2 mile race until I experienced how amazing running my
first race at Disney World was. I immediately signed up to run the full.
I knew it would take a lot of motivation to train (and then run) 26.2 miles. Disney races are high-energy, with fun character stops, entertainment, and dazzling medals. I knew the journey, the race itself,
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Jan 9th 2023
Presence or Presents? Five Ways to Be More Present During the Holidays
As you reflect on the
holiday season, what images, sentiments, or traditions come to mind first? Maybe it’s religious
services. Or family meals and tasty sweets. Perhaps it’s traveling near and far
to see loved ones. Hosting large celebrations or enjoying more intimate affairs.
Exchanging store-bought or homemade gifts, or maybe you forgo gift-giving
altogether? Whatever your holiday
rituals and customs involve, is there room to explore a new tradition? This year, I encourage
everyone to
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Dec 12th 2022
Encouraging Family Literacy: 6 Suggestions for Growing Your Child’s Interest in Reading
What
is literacy? The
National Literacy Trust defines literacy as “the ability to read,
write, speak, and listen in a way that lets us communicate effectively and make
sense of the world.”
Until
I joined the team at Boys Town Press, I didn’t think much about literacy or the
nuances around how a child becomes interested in reading. But looking back, I
have several core childhood memories that I now see as paramount to my own love
of reading and learning.
Most
of these memories c
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Nov 8th 2022
Helping Your Child Deal with Rumors
Your child comes home from school feeling sad, embarrassed,
and angry. After probing, you find out your child has been the victim of untrue
rumors being spread about him. Why is this happening? How can you support your
child through this? How can your child prove something didn’t happen…when it
didn’t happen? There are steps to take when dealing with rumors and gossip.First, find out where the rumors started. Ask your
child if she knows how the rumors started? Does she know the child/ren wh
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Oct 4th 2022
A Two-Part Series on the Value of Teaching Social Skills (Part 2)
Part 2: How to Teach Social Skills
After exploring how social skills help us make connections,
foster a sense of belonging, and strengthen our social-emotional health ( see Part 1 ), let’s take a step back and examine how, exactly, we can help kids learn
and use these skills so they can succeed in the classroom, at home, and in our community.
Here is a straightforward, five-step action plan you can
follow to successfully teach social skills to any child in your care.1. Start
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Sep 20th 2022
Back to School: 10 Restorative Care Tips
Back to school.
Sometimes it’s a time of hope and excitement. Sometimes, it’s a time of anxiety and dread.
“Will they like me?”
“What if the work is too much?”
“What if I can’t handle it all this time?”
No, I’m not talking about students – though they are likely experiencing similar emotions. I’m talking to school counselors.
As counselors, we’re not immune to that weird conglomeration of emotions that accompany the b
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Sep 15th 2022
A Two-Part Series on the Value of Teaching Social Skills (Part 1)
Part 1: Social Skills Can Expand (and Limit) Life’s
OpportunitiesWhen you hear the phrase “social skills,” you probably think
about all the verbal and nonverbal actions and behaviors that happen while
interacting with others. Your words. Their words. Your tone. Their tone. Your
gestures. Their gestures. Your appearance. Their appearance. All the stuff that
comes together and contributes to the success or failure of an interaction. Being human, we’re naturally social beings. However, the
d
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Sep 7th 2022
Value of Face-to-Face Connections
In today's digital world, it's common for scenarios like this to play out: A teenage girl comes into the kitchen obviously upset. When her dad asks what's wrong, she says she is having a fight with a friend who said hurtful things to her.Her dad can't believe the friend would say some of the things his daughter told him about. For proof, she takes out her cell phone so he can "read" the argument. The entire thing was happening via text messages, and they hadn't actually spoken about the problem
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Jul 12th 2022
Social Media Driver's License
Do you feel overwhelmed when you think about parenting social media? Do you know where to start? What sites are more kid-friendly or how do you talk to your kid about the dangers of social media? Or what are the dangers of social media? You are not alone. Our goal is help to you navigate the world of social media by having your child earn their social media license.
First, it is important to identify what your child knows about social media. This will help you assess your child's readiness
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Jun 9th 2022